Just this once, quit the loads of resolutions. Fix your mind with one little thing: Live your life and try your best.
Nothing else matters, see? You may have one hundred issues of anxiety, depression, fears, doubts, paranoia etc. But, they don’t get to decide your life. You do.
It’s YOUR life, and something only you can control. Feels pretty great, eh? That’s how you’ve always been. Pretty great. Don’t let the grey world stop you from shining bright.
So this time, don’t force it all at once. You cannot suddenly wake up one day and push an entire Rule-Book on yourself. It may work for a couple of days, but never in the long run. So this 2018, the focus is going to be on you.
I’m not going to tell you how to live. I’m not perfect and neither are you. So here are 6 pointers to keep in mind while we live through this year.
Because in the roar of unfathomable turns that life takes, here are few things so that you don’t forget the essentialities of what makes you a good person. 🙂
6 Things To Keep In Mind While You Live:
1. Love Yourself:
Be kind to yourself. You go through so much. Give yourself the credits. Don’t hate yourself. You are worth a million.
Don’t let anyone walk over you. I want you to love every inch of yourself from the frizzy little hairs sprouting out from your gorgeous head to the broken nails on your toe. So much that you forget what it is like to be hurt by someone else.
2. Quit the ‘ifs’ and ‘buts’:
“But what if…it goes wrong?“. Oh yes, it might go wrong. But does that mean you can’t do it anymore? So what if it goes wrong? All that matters is that, you tried. And I bet you now know where you went wrong, so that you can do it to perfection the next time.
But then…..what if it went.. right? 🙂
3. Make Things Happen:
I used to think, “Oh if it’s meant to happen, then it will happen. No worries”. Wrong. If you want it to happen, then you make things happen. In your way. Try and go get it.
4. Be Kind to Others:
It never hurts them, but only helps. And you don’t lose anything in the process, either. I’ve let out my anger many times recently, until I realised how useless it was. It only makes things worse.
Take a second to tell people how much you love them. It makes their day.
5. Don’t try to Please Others. Make Yourself Happy.
Help people. But don’t try to make everyone happy. You can’t be loyal to everyone. Put yourself first and make yourself happy.
Remember, happiness is a choice. You can’t help anyone if you are so miserable that you can’t help yourself. You can love as strongly, as deeply, as ever before. There’s no change in that.
You can make only one person happy everyday. Remember to choose yourself. 🙂
6. Last of All, Do what feels Right to you:
You know best about your life. Don’t try to figure out everything. Just do what feels right to you. You don’t have to follow anything either.
The best people in life are free.
Think for a minute as soon as you get out of bed, every morning. Tell yourself how lucky you are. Get yourself together and start your day, afresh. 🙂 You’re the one who gets to decide how you want your life to be.
So there it goes!
Now that our day is here, let us look forward to all joy, fun and hope. let us look forward to all the greatest of things. Let us all form a big blogging community, where everyone helps one another, where there’s no egoism, competition or any other negativity. We’re all friends. We all need each other.
So thank you so so so much my dear friends for giving me an amazing blogging time this year, and helping me celebrate my first Christmas and New Year on this blog. You’ve lighten me up on bad days, and supported me, and I can’t replace that.
Just know I LOVE YOU ALL FREAKING SO MUCH. Don’t leave me please. You won’t right? 🙂